On May 29, 2025, Dr. Nicoletta Tessler, CEO of BeMe Health, led a powerful and engaging 15-minute webinar titled Practice Healthy Social Media Use. Whether you joined us live or are just catching up now, this recap highlights the key takeaways from her thoughtful and timely discussion.

When Is It “Too Much”?

We all know that technology and social media are deeply ingrained in our daily lives. But how do we know when it becomes too much? According to Dr. Tessler, the tipping point is personal, but a useful indicator is when social media starts to interfere with your quality of life, relationships or mental health. She walked us through several signs that it may be time to reassess your usage:

• Diminished Presence: Difficulty staying focused on conversations or activities without checking your phone.
• Mental Health Impact: Increases in anxiety, depression, loneliness or low self-worth triggered by online comparisons or seeking validation.
• Sleep Disruption: Nighttime device use affecting sleep quality and next-day energy.
• Productivity Loss: More time spent consuming content than creating or doing meaningful work.
• Relationship Strain: Loved ones feeling neglected or disconnected because of your screen time.
• Impulse Use: Reaching for your phone out of habit rather than intent.
• Physical Symptoms: Eye strain, poor posture and other device-related discomfort.

If these sound familiar, ask yourself: Is this enhancing or diminishing the life I want to lead? If it’s the latter, it may be time to set some healthier boundaries.

Emotional and Mental Health Impacts

Dr. Tessler emphasized the profound emotional and mental effects of excessive social media use:

• Anxiety and Stress: Constant notifications increase stress and feed the Fear of Missing Out (FOMO).
• Depression: Exposure to idealized, filtered lives can lead to feelings of inadequacy.
• Loneliness: Virtual overuse often replaces meaningful real-world connection, ironically increasing isolation.
• Low Self-Esteem: Social comparison and the pursuit of online validation can erode internal confidence.
• Cognitive Fatigue: Frequent multitasking and content switching train our brains for distraction, reducing focus and deep thinking.
• Sleep Issues: Late-night screen time disrupts circadian rhythms and melatonin production.
• Emotional Dysregulation: Overexposure to intense content can heighten emotional reactivity or dull it.
• Addictive Patterns: Social media use activates dopamine-driven reward cycles, creating compulsive habits.

So, What Can We Do?

Dr. Tessler offered a multi-part framework for building a healthier relationship with technology.

Set Clear, Intentional Boundaries

• Establish time limits on social media use.
• Create device-free zones, especially in the bedroom.
• Set a tech curfew, and honor it, even on weekends.

• Before picking up your phone, ask yourself: Why am I doing this?
• Avoid grazing on content throughout the day. Schedule your social media time.

• Share your boundaries with others to normalize healthy tech use.
• Be a role model, not just for others, but for yourself.

Make Time for Real Connection

• Schedule regular in-person time with friends and family.
• Use your device to call or FaceTime, not just text.

Focus on What Adds Value

• Try a digital detox—start with 15 minutes, an hour or a day.
• Replace doom-scrolling with meditation or mindfulness apps.

• Turn off non-essential notifications to reduce distractions.
• Rearrange your home screen to hide attention-grabbing icons.

• Unfollow or mute any accounts that don’t make you feel good.
• Audit your tech use weekly or monthly.
• Ask yourself: Is this helping or harming? Make small adjustments as needed.

Final Thoughts: Start Small, Start Somewhere… Just, START

Dr. Tessler closed the session with this reminder: The goal is not to eliminate technology, but to become more conscious about how we use it. Here are her parting words of wisdom:

• Recognize early signs. Just like with physical health, mental wellbeing requires proactive care.
• Start somewhere. You don’t need to be perfect, just begin.
• Have self-empathy. You’d be patient with a friend starting something new; be just as kind to yourself.

You don’t have to overhaul everything at once. Taking one small step toward better balance is how meaningful change begins.

If you missed the Magellan Minute, listen to the recording here.

On January 21, 2025, Dr. Annetta Davenport, a Certified Employee Assistance Professional and Florida Licensed Mental Health Counselor, led an engaging 15-minute webinar designed to help participants restore balance and boost their overall wellbeing. This dynamic session, titled Reset Your Energy, offered practical insights into the importance of mental wellbeing, actionable strategies to improve outlook and simple techniques to rediscover positivity in daily life.

Whether you joined us live or are catching up now, this recap will highlight key takeaways from the session, empowering you to regain focus and approach each day with renewed energy and a positive mindset. Let’s dive into how small changes can lead to big transformations!

What is mental wellbeing and why does it matter?

Mental wellbeing is our sense of being present at any moment and is essential for thriving, not just surviving. Thriving supports growth, allowing us to expand our potential, adapt to change and live a meaningful life. Positive feelings like happiness, contentment and hope help us flourish, even when circumstances are challenging. Experts identify three components of mental wellbeing: emotional (our feelings and ability to manage them), psychological (values, sense of self and cognitive functioning), and social (our connections, relationships and sense of belonging). To nurture wellbeing, we can focus on nutrition, quality sleep and mental stimulation to support brain health while choosing positive approaches to challenges.

What are some ways to improve mental wellbeing and build resilience?

To enhance mental wellbeing, it is important to create a plan tailored to you. Start by monitoring your emotions, identifying patterns over time and expanding your emotional vocabulary to better understand your feelings. Next, prioritize regular social engagement—whether one-on-one or in groups—and focus on meaningful interactions by asking open-ended questions to deepen connections. Finally, support brain health through physical activities, mental exercises like puzzles or memory games and other practices that strengthen cognitive functioning. A deliberate approach to emotional awareness, social connection and mental stimulation can foster a balanced and thriving sense of well-being.

As we start a new year, many of us may feel the post-holiday slump or the “winter blues.” What are some simple strategies and techniques to help boost productivity and recharge during this time?

To combat the post-holiday slump or winter blues, one effective technique is using “I statements” to express emotions constructively. For example, saying, “I feel sad about missing the recital, but could you videotape it for me?” shares feelings, identifies their cause and invites social connection for support. Another approach is to focus on what’s working rather than dwelling on challenges. Redirect your energy to solutions and maintain a positive outlook by appreciating the resources and opportunities you already have. By shifting your mindset and engaging others, you can stay motivated and resilient.

What do you do when your natural disposition is that the glass is half empty?

If you tend to see the glass as half empty, forcing positivity isn’t the answer. Instead, start by acknowledging that your feelings are valid – it’s perfectly okay not to be naturally optimistic. Consider working with a counselor who can help you explore these feelings and develop strategies that feel authentic to you. A counselor can help you build skills to manage negative thoughts without pretending they do not exist. Small steps, like simply noticing one neutral thing each day (not even positive, just neutral), can be more helpful than trying to flip a switch to positivity. The goal is not to become a different person or to suddenly become optimistic – it is to develop tools that work for you while honoring who you are.

If you missed the Magellan Minute, listen to the recording here.