It’s Monday—again! You wake up to another busy day of worrying how you’ll manage juggling work, family and personal commitments. As the day progresses, stress begins to take its toll, and you feel overwhelmed. Don’t worry! There’s a simple solution. Focusing a few minutes every day on enhancing your mental wellbeing can increase your resilience and help you manage stress. It’s never too late to start, even if this is something you’ve never done before.

So, let’s explore five powerful, easy-to-implement tips to improve your mental wellbeing and embark on a journey towards a calmer, happier and more fulfilling life.

Practice mindfulness

Living in the present moment without judgment can help you be more positive and better manage difficult situations when they arise. Practicing mindfulness or quieting your mind with meditation can help you to stop dwelling on the past or worrying about the future. Try physical routines such as yoga, Tai chi, and qigong to prompt mindfulness and focus on your breathing. You can learn to live your best life right now.

Take a break

Find time to do things you enjoy in small increments. Small moments of self-care can have an extremely positive impact on your mental wellbeing. Dive into the captivating world of books. Sit outside and connect with nature. Immerse yourself in thought-provoking podcasts that inspire and uplift your spirits. Or just simply unwind and let go in whatever way brings you joy.

Spend quality time with the ones you love

When you’re with loved ones, take the time to deepen connections and foster stronger relationships. Engage in conversations that help you learn more about each other’s dreams, aspirations and challenges so you can provide support to one another. Consider embarking on new adventures together, such as cooking a new recipe or taking up a fun sport. Or if you’re really up for a challenge, you can try learning a new language or how to play a musical instrument together. Explore new areas in your neighborhood, city or state, like art galleries, parks or gardens, vintage or thrift stores, farmer’s markets, specialty boutiques or shops, cultural or historical landmarks, and hidden trails or scenic spots. Discovering hidden gems with family and friends can create lasting memories. Or tantalize your taste buds by venturing into a new restaurant and indulging in a shared culinary experience. The possibilities for bonding and growth are endless when you embrace quality time with loved ones.

Prioritize sleep and healthy eating

Maintaining a regular sleep schedule and practicing proper nutrition can help you in many ways. These healthy habits work hand in hand to enhance your mood and reduce feelings of anxiety. Establishing a calming routine before bedtime can promote better sleep quality. Consider indulging in a warm bath to relax your body and mind, reading a captivating book to unwind, or listening to soothing music to create a peaceful atmosphere for restful sleep.

In addition, making mindful choices about your nutrition can help improve your mental and physical health. Choose nutrient-rich foods that nourish your body and mind. Include plenty of fresh fruits and vegetables in your meals, such as colorful berries, leafy greens and crunchy carrots. These wholesome choices provide essential vitamins, minerals and antioxidants that support your overall wellbeing and boost your mood.

Accept your thoughts and seek help when needed

It’s completely natural to feel down during challenging times, and it’s important to acknowledge and honor those emotions. Remember you don’t have to face hard times alone. Reaching out to the people who genuinely care about you can provide tremendous support and comfort, helping to uplift your spirits and bring comfort during difficult moments.

Additional mental health resources

For more information and resources to enhance your mental wellbeing, visit our award-wining behavioral health resources website, MagellanHealthcare.com/BH-Resources.

SOURCES:           Healthwise, Integrative Life Center

As we pass from one year into the next with celebration, it can be a terrific time to reset, reframe and evaluate how we’ve been living. Do you feel run down on a regular basis? Do you feel unsatisfied with your career or personal relationships? Is there something that is weighing on your confidence? If enough dissonance exists between how we wish to live and how we’re currently going about our daily lives, the gap can begin to weigh on our happiness, health and sense of identity. It’s important to realize that to struggle with this dissonance from time-to-time is to be human, but there are a few simple tips you can take on to gradually reposition thoughts and make progress toward living a more satisfying, mindful life in the new year.

1. Prioritize connecting with family and friends. While it’s easy to get consumed with shopping for just the right gift, making the house “just-so” and achieving an Instagram-worthy holiday or party scene, try to steal a few minutes in your day to press the pause button. Savor your coffee, close your eyes and think about the valued relationships in your life. Make time for a quality visit, phone call, or send a card, text message or social media message to someone you fell out of touch with – just to wish them well and ask how they are. Knock on an elderly neighbor’s door, or look up and notice someone in your path that may be in need of a connection, and offer a friendly conversation.

2. Evaluate your self-care routine. When we think of healthy habits we aspire to adopt, we often look at the physical habits we can improve on – regular exercise, balanced diet, more water and sleep. Every year, many people begin with a resolution to finally tackle the mystical formula of being able to incorporate these habits into their daily life. While the holidays can be a great time to schedule that annual physical to check-up on your physical self, make sure you’re also scheduling in time to identify why it’s been difficult to achieve your goals and what you specifically need in order to feel strong and resilient. How do you feel about yourself? What are some negative influences in your life? Being honest about these questions can help you pinpoint how to move forward and incorporate ways to take care of your mental and emotional needs along with the physical. Your self-care routine will be unique to you, whether it’s recognizing that you need more quiet time in your day, or that your current situation leaves you feeling socially-isolated. Discovering what’s truly bothering you can feel very freeing, and offer a clearer picture of how to move forward.

3. Talk to someone proactively. Whether it’s a friend, family member, or a professional therapist or coach, exploring your feelings and the way you react to life stressors with an objective third party can help you step back and observe your needs in a different light. We often limit ourselves unconsciously with thinking patterns, views and behaviors that we’ve built on through the unique experiences in our lives. Recognizing the ability to look at things from a different perspective before we find ourselves in a serious state helps us to build that mindfulness muscle – helping us to cope better with challenges, react in constructive ways and practice resiliency. If you’re hoping to speak with a professional, there are now more options than ever to access them. Employers often offer a series of free and confidential coaching or counseling sessions as part of an Employee Assistance Program. If you struggle with transportation or have a packed schedule, or would like to experiment with different types of support, there are also a growing number of online options that can be sought out at any time of day – from online cognitive behavioral therapy programs (CBT), to text or video therapy or coaching, and many mobile apps that can help you track and practice positive daily habits (search for “meditation” or “mindfulness” in your app store, for example.)

4. Think about how you handle change. Change is constant and often feels disruptive to our lives. Whether it’s broader, societal change that we observe, or more personal life events – changing jobs, moving to a new location, or having a new child, change affects us all differently. It may interrupt our ability to fall asleep at night. It may even induce feelings of fear and anxiety. It may force us to evaluate how to think about ourselves and our relationships. Stepping back and taking a look at how we react to change helps us to be more mindful of the constructive steps we can take to alleviate worries and rise above negativity. Practice reframing what you hear and be open to looking at a situation from all perspectives. Think about different options you have in your reactions, and try to be empathetic to those that may have a different reaction to the same situation. Acknowledge others’ feelings as valid – even if they are different from yours. Lastly, it’s important to focus on aspects of a situation that you can control and impact positively, and to lessen time worrying about things you cannot. There are situations where you’ll have to take things as they come and allow things to happen.

5. Practice failing well. Chances are, you’ll be making some important life choices this year. Maybe you’re helping your child choose which major to take in school. Maybe you’re evaluating your own education and career options. Maybe you’re looking to deepen existing relationships, or find a fulfilling new one. Self-doubt inevitably can creep in and interfere with your ability to achieve these goals and make helpful decisions. Failing well is a skill, and learning to cope with and navigate failures will do wonders for your confidence and knowledge about yourself. Many successful people have shared that they’ve succeeded because of their failures and ability to find their strengths through them.

In the words of all-star NBA player, Michael Jordan:

“If you’re trying to achieve, there will be roadblocks. I’ve had them; everybody has had them. But obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it. I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times, I’ve been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

We at Magellan wish you a happy, healthy and more mindful 2017!