This article is part two of our discussion about the impacts on mental health and the war in Ukraine. Click here to read our tips for adults. 

Information on the war is continually changing. The youngest viewers, children, are watching and may experience the fear and stress associated with images from the war in Ukraine.

To add to the stress and concern, this global crisis comes on the heels of being exhausted and socially isolated by the pandemic. The following are some tips to help children that are impacted or stressed by the Ukraine situation.

Listen to children. Children hear and see things. This can be especially frightening if they have a parent deployed. It is important not to force them to talk. Find alternative ways to communicate with children such as drawing or playing with toys.

Calm conversation. It is important for parents to be calm when talking to their children about Ukraine. Parents need to be careful not to be the source of a child’s anxiety. Parents are encouraged to check-in and ask their children how they are doing.

Answer children’s questions. Support and acknowledge what your child is saying and their potential fears. Reassure your child but do not make unrealistic promises. Answer questions and help in separating fact from fiction.

Provide support. Do not let children watch the images of violence on television. Children who have experienced trauma may need extra attention. Some children may not want to talk about the event. It is okay if they would rather play or be outside.

Limit exposure to media and social media. Limit the exposure to graphic violence on media. For older children, watch the news with the child and then talk about how the child is reacting to what they are seeing.

Maintain a normal routine. Encourage the daily routines such as homework, sports, activities to continue.

Watch for changes in mood. Some children show their reactions in nonverbal ways. Watch for anger, physical symptoms, mood changes, or withdrawing from usual activities and conversations.

The war in Ukraine is continually changing with updates to the minute within the news cycle and social media. Constantly, there are reports and images flooding our electronic devices with images that are incomprehensible to see. Military families have intense stress as they look at the uncertainties of deployments and the impact on military families. To add to the stress and concern, this global crisis comes on the heels of being exhausted and socially isolated by a two-year pandemic. The following are some tips to take care of your mental health during the Ukraine situation.

Limit your exposure – disconnect from electronics and social media. Although it is important to understand what is happening in the world, it is important not to immerse oneself in the event every moment. Set time limits for yourself regarding how much News or social media you watch or follow.

Recognize that people will have different reactions. People respond and react to tragedy and stress in multiple ways. Personal circumstances, such as deployment, may have different responses than those that are not experiencing deployment.

Talk about it. Do not keep your reactions inside alone. Process your feelings by talking to family, friends, and colleagues about your experience. If the feelings are overwhelming, consider talking to Mental Health Professional that can offer personalized strategies for managing your anxiety about current events.

Engage in activities that provide meaning. Participate in activities that are healthy and you enjoy. Some ideas include exercising, cooking, taking a hike, or playing with a pet.

Engage in meditation and mindfulness. Relaxation, or breathing exercises can improve your state of mind and reduce stress. Taking a few moments just to be present can shift your body’s reaction from a stress response. Try a simple breathing exercise of breathing in for a count of 6 hold for a count of 2 and breathe out for a count of 6.

COVID fatigue. Acknowledge that after a two-year pandemic and many people are tired. The Ukraine situation is especially hard to absorb. It is normal to feel overwhelmed

Avoid catastrophizing. Avoid thinking about future scenarios and what the outcome might be. Focus on one day at a time for now.